cohabitation

CollegeStudentCouplesShouldn'tLiveTogetherNowadays,cohabitationisprevailingamongthecollegestudentcouples.However,Istronglyopposetoit.Thedisadvantagesoverweightheadvantages.Iwillillustratemypointsasfollows.First,cohabitationwillcertainlyleadtotheantemaritalsexualbehavior.Everyonehasthelibido.Sometimes,theyjustcannotcontrolthemselves.Theworstsituationisthatthegirlgetpregnantandherboyfriendabandonher.Thegirlsbecomepremothersandthebabiesareverylikelytobeaborted.Alsoabortiondoesgreatharmtothementalandphysicalhealthofthegirl.Iftheboyisresponsibleenoughtokeeptherelationshipwithhisgirlfriendandtheygetmarriedlater,canyouimaginetheawkwardsituationtheywillmeet?Thecouplehavenoenterpriseandtheyevendon'tgettheirbachelordiploma.Itishardforthemtodealwiththeirowndailylife,letalonetakinggoodcareofthelifeofalittlebaby.Furthermore,ifthecouplehavesomediseases,sexualbehaviorwillresulttotransmittionofthediseaseanddoharmtothecouple'sphysicalhealth.Second,thespendingofcohabitationisenormous.Thecouplehavetopayallkindsoffeesiftheylivetogether,theratecharge,thegasfee,thewaterandelectricityfee...Themajorityoftheirmoneyisgivenbytheirparents.Asapersonwhoisnotindependenteconomically,heshouldn'tsplurgethemoneyfromhisparentsonlytosatisfyhisselfishdesire.Theirparentsworkhardtopaytheirtuitionsandlivingfees.Dotheyhavetheresponsibilitytopaytheirchildren'scohabitationfees?Ofcoursenot!Third,cohabitationdilapidatethestudy.Whenthecouplelivetogether,theyhavetocareaboutthetriflesinlife.Theypaymoreattentiontothedailynecessities.Asaresult,theydon'tdevotetheirmindtostudy.Intheirsparetime,theywouldliketogoshoppingorenjoyafilmintheirhouseinsteadofreadingsomebooksintheclassroom.Notinvolvedintheatmosphereofstudy,theywillbecomelazyanddon'teagertogetknowledge.Thedistractionofstudyspoiltheircollegelife.Atlast,they'llblameeachotheriftheycan'tgetthediploma.Fourth,theoverstayofthecouplecaninfluencetheircommunicationwithclassmates.Thetwochoosetospendalltheirtimetogether,indulgingintheirownsmallworld.Theydon'thaveenoughcontactwithpeopleinsociety.Tosomeextent,theirsocialabilitywillbeaffectedorevenworsetheymaygetintoinfantileautism.Suchexamplesareobviouslyreportedinnewspapersandtelevisions.Lastly,thesocialproblemscausedbycohabitationcan'tbeignored.Thehousestheylivemaynotunderthesafetycontrolofschools.Ifthepublicsecurityisnotsoundthere,theft,robbery,andmanyothercrimescanhappenfrequently.Itisreallydangerous.Eventhoughthedormsarenotwellfurnishedandtheycanbealittlecrowded.Buttheyarethesafestplaceforuscollegestudentstolive.ConsideringwhatIhavementionedabove,cohabitationsofthecollegestudentcouplesaredeleterious.Consequently,Iopposetothispractice.