大学英语课 presentation

GigiNaïveAlwaysmisreadthesignsAlwaysgetshurtbutnevergivesupAlexHardenedExperiencedPopularwithgirlsbutalwayskeepasafedistancewiththemBethspecial,mature,wantstotietheknotwithNeilNeillovesBeth,butafraidofmarriage•Becauseifyouaresolegitimatelyhappy,honestlyyouwouldn'tfeeltheneedtomakeabigshowoutofit.因为如果你真正地快乐并忠诚于对方，你就不会去搞个婚礼什么的展示一番，Youwouldn'thavetobroadcastit.不用到处去告诉人家。Theydoitbecausethey'reinsecureandtheythinkgettingmarriediswhatthey'resupposedtobedoing.他们结婚是因为没信心，他们认为结婚是必须做的事。Sothey'relyingtothemselvesandtootherpeople.他们在欺骗自己和别人。Seriously.Thinkaboutyouandyourfriends.Okay?真的，想想你和你的朋友，好吗？Thesewomenyouhavegreatrelationshipswith,you'reclosetothem,someofthemyou'veknownforyears,你们有着非常深厚的友谊，你们相识多年，关系亲密，butyoudon'tfeeltheneedtowritea$45checktothestateofMarylandforafriendshipcertificate.但你们不会花45美元去马里兰州签一张友谊证书。Right?Whyshoulditbeanydifferent,youknow,withmeandyou?对吧？这和你我之间又有什么区别呢？We'reveryhappy,Iloveyou,I'mcommittedtoyouwehaveagreatlife,youknow?我们很幸福，我爱你，我属于你。我们生活很好，不是吗？Janinesensitive,maybeoversensitive,reallycareabouthonestyBenJanine’shusband,wasforcedtogetmarried,becausehedoesn’twanttoloseherThey’vebeentogetherforalongtime,butthepassionseemstobefadingoutAnnahot,sexy,maybelackofsecurityConorAlex’sfriend,likesAnna,butnoresultsMarysmartgirl,Anna’sfriendthey’vebeentogetheratlast•Complicated!•Notsofantastic•ButsomethinginthemoviemakessenseAtthebeginning…•Weareallencouraged,no...programmed,tobelieveifaguyactslikeatotaljerk,thatmeanshelikesyou!Whydoweallsaythattoeachother?Isitpossiblethatwearetooscaredandtoohardtosaythatoneobvioustruththat'sstaringeveryoneintheface:HEISJUSTNOTTHATINTOYOU...•Whenwegethurt,peoplearoundusoftenencourageus,findingexcusesfortheonewhohurtsus.•Buttheynevertellyouthatthesadtruthis•Noexcuse,he’sjustnotthatintoyou..Themovietellsus..•Ifaguydoesn'tcallyou,hedoesn'twannacallyou.•Ifaguyistreatingyoulikehedoesn'tgiveashit,hegenuinelydoesn'tgiveashit.•Ifaguywantstoseeyou,believeme,hewillseeyou.•Wearenottheexception,wearetherule.•Andanywayallofmyfriendsusedtotellmestoriesabouthowthingsmightworkoutwiththesedipshits还有，不管如何，我的朋友们给我讲的那些关于这些白痴男人都会变好的故事，becausetheyknewsomeonewhoknewsomeonewhodatedadipshitlikemine•因为她们朋友的朋友曾约会过这样的臭男人，和我类似，andthatgirlendedupgettingmarriedlookinghappilyeverafter.结果这个朋友结婚了，过上幸福的生活。Butthat'stheexception.We'renottheexception,we'retherule.但那都是例外，我们不是例外，我们只是普遍情况。•Guysinventedthespark.男人发明了火花这一说Sotheycouldnotcallandtreatyoukindofbadlyandkeepyouguessing因为这样，他们就可以不打电话，可以对你很冷淡，让你捉摸不透。andthenconvinceyouthatanxietyandfearthatjustdevelopsnaturally.然后哄你相信，你对此自然而然产生的焦虑和害怕。It'sactuallyjustaspark.是一种火花。Andyouguysallbuyit,youeatitupandyouloveit.而你们这些女人照单全收，完全相信，还很喜欢。Youloveitbecauseyoufeedoffthatdrama,youalllovethatdrama.你们喜欢是因为你们偶像剧看多了，就喜欢这种情节。Becausesecretlyyoucannotlovethedramaofnotknowingwhetherornotyou'regonnamakeit.你要知道自己是否能成功，所以才喜欢这种情节。•girlsarealwaysverysensitiveaboutrelationships•Careaboutallthedetails•alwaysthinktoomuch•Infact..•其实很多时候这些细节根本就不代表任何意义，男生们甚至从没考虑过这些•theyfindyoutochat•theysendyousmallgifts•inviteyoutoparticipateinactivities•theymovedoesnotmeantheyareinterestedinyou,sodonotnaivelythoughtthattheysentyoulovesignals•Maybeyou’rejustafriendBecause..•Ifhereallylikesyou,hewon’tgreetyousometimescoldlyandsometimeswarmly•Hewon’thidehisfeelings•Andhedefinitelywon’tbeambiguous(暧昧)•Eventhemostshyguycanbebrave,andmakeaconfession(表白)•Wanttoputthelabelonyouannouncingthatyouarehis•Theywon’tletyougowithoutafightComfortingwords•helikesyoutoomuch.You'retooprettyandtooawesome.•hejustlostyournumber•He'snotaskingyououtbecausehe'sintimidatedbyyourprofessionalsuccess•He’snotaskingyououtbecausehe’sscaredofyouremotionalmaturity•he'sjustgettingoutofaseriousrelationship.•It'sbecausehe'sneverhadaseriousrelationship.Whenbreaksup•Idon'twannastandinyourway•You'reperfect,it'sjustIhavetoworkonmyself•I'mjustthinkingofyourhappiness•Idon'tdeserveyou•Iamsojealousoftheguywhogetstomarryyou.(niceone!)Isn’tmyword,andisn’talwaystrue•Ofcourse,wegirlsarenotalwaystheinferiorones•Actually,Ihavetoadmitthatnowadaysthecircumstanceshavebeenreversed•Boyscanbecheatedbygirls,andtheymightbehurt•Offeringtoomuchbutgainingnothing•Thisisn’twhatwewant•Attheend…•Themovietoldussomething•女孩在成长的过程中会学到很多东西：•Girlsaretaughtalotofstuffgrowingup:•如果一个男孩欺负你，是因为他喜欢你。•Ifaguypinchesyou,helikesyou.•千万不要试着自己修剪刘海。•Nevertrytotrimyourownbangs.•然后有一天，你会遇到非常棒的男人，从此过着幸福生活。•Andsomedayyouwillmeetawonderfulguyandgetyourveryownhappyending.•我们看的每场电影，听过的每个故事都告诉我们要耐心等待。•Everymoviewesee,everystorywe'retoldistowaitforit.•而第三类情况是：无法预知的爱情宣言，游离于规则之外。•Thethirdacttwist:Theinexpecteddeclarationoflove.theexceptiontotherule.•但有时我们太专注于寻找幸福。•Butsometimeswe'resofocusedonfindingourhappyending.•我们没有学会如何读懂别人的暗示。•Wedon'tlearnhowtoreadthesigns.•如何分辨谁是真正爱我们的人。•Howtotelltheoneswhowantusfromtheoneswhodon't.•如何分辨这个人是不是只是生命中的过客。•Theoneswhowillstayfromtheoneswhowillleave.•或许这个幸福的结局中并没有一个很棒的男人。•Andmaybethishappyendingdoesn'tincludeawonderfulguy.•或许是你，你一个人，收拾好心情，然后重新开始。•Maybeit'syou,onyourown,pickingupthepiecesandstartingover.•释放自己，为了更好的未来。•Freeingyourselfupforsomethingbetterinthefuture.•或许